Self confidence. She has it, and so do you. It's not about actual shape. It's about confidently wearing the shape you have. Would you go back to being twenty just to have the shape of youth once more? Not me, not on your life! I'd rather be the squished and dumpy forty-something funhouse mirror image of this figure than be twenty again. Know why? Self confidence. I have it now, and I didn't have it then. Now, I can look at any shape and appreciate its strengths. Self confidence. Wear it.